It is Tuesday evening and I just came back from work. It is awesome weather in Chicago after hell of a winter season. Considering 6pm in evening, I have lot of options to spend my time – could go out and play tennis, burn calories in gym, gather people to play cricket in backyard, watch TV with evening tea and snacks, post process bunch of pending photos or even go to sleep to relax. Eventually, I decided something out of the blue, to write a blog, in an effort to achieve my goal of one blog per month. So here I am, writing on a topic which I already had in my mind from long time but numerous recent instances pushed me hard to go for it.
Why it is hard to get a girl after 26 ? First of all, 26 is not a magical number, nor I came to this conclusion after doing survey of 1000 people. It is just my choice to make myself feel good, since 26 is much close to how old I am right now and in many ways it feels more appropriate than 24 or 25. I want to clear one more thing, this theory is not applicable to Americans. One of the good things about American culture is that you are never too old to find a girl, you can even find your love in hopeless place irrespective of how old you are. Yes, you finally got it, this is all about Indian girls.
As your work experience increases, and if you are single, chances to find a girl decreases exponentially. It all starts with College life. In most of the colleges in India, ratio of girls to boys is pretty less. This implies that no matter what happens – all the girls will definitely find someone, even the most confused ones since they have four years to make a decision with lot of options available, and majority of boys will spend college life drinking with friends and playing different games. When boys pass out from college and join corporate world, they again get opportunity to interact with girls. These girls may or may not be from their college, but each one of them now carry lot of filters which plays vital role in deciding future of boys. Each girl has different filters which is constructed over time and is either based on their past relationship(s) which did not went as they planned, or their family culture which is different in every family in India, or their own aspirations which are normally very high or due to concepts of life explained by their best friends, friends which keep on changing year after year. Everytime they see a boy, they apply these filters and come to conclusion within seconds, a decision which is final and will not change in any case. Boys wait for acknowledgement of message which was sent long ago without knowing the fact that receiver at other end is inside these filters and receiver did not received any message till yet. If somehow, boy manages to pass through all these filters or pass through most of them, then only he is considered otherwise he is utilised for other mundane tasks.
To change this scenario, at least someone has to change. Wait a minute, how dare you to think that you can bring change in girls. If ever you attempt to change a girl then you will end up in becoming part of that change and you can count on me for that. So, only scope of change here is with boys, boys who are still in college or who will be going to college in future – while you are in college, it is easy and best time to get a girl. Once you are out of college, it becomes very hard.
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